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Who am I Meant to Be?

We always judge ourselves more harshly than we would judge anyone else.  We expect perfection when perfection doesn't exist.  We aren't giving ourselves enough credit for all things we have accomplished, but we are hyper-focused on the things that are yet undone.  And many times, we haven't set clear boundaries for ourselves. 

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Is it a WANT or a NEED?

Plus, remember that old saying, “if Momma’s happy, everybody’s happy”!! There’s real wisdom in that saying. Taking time to care for ourselves makes us better caregivers, and often brings greater happiness to the whole family. It’s a win/win.

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Alone Doesn't Mean Lonely

But, I know people who cannot stand to be alone.  It drives them crazy and they don't know what to do with the silence. There is often a social stigma to being alone. Some people think of it as a "punishment", or that there must be "something wrong".  How could someone want to spend time alone vs. being with a group of people? 

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Note to Self: Stop People Pleasing!

One of the most important lessons that I learned during my cancer journey was that I had become a people-pleaser. I hadn't always been that way, but over time I had taken on the (self imposed) responsibility of making sure everyone around me was happy. I had become a Chief People-Pleaser!

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